Motherhood, Widowhood, SAHM and small business owner. Advocate for mental health and suicide prevention.
Many women silence their pain, seeking protection rather than attention, as past experiences of being misunderstood have taught them that speaking out often results in invalidation. Their quietness isn’t emptiness; it’s a form of self-care. Those who love such women should create a safe space, allowing them to express themselves…
Meghan shares her painful experience of grief following her husband Nick’s death, confronting the hypocrisy of blame and judgment from others. She highlights how outsiders often misrepresent her role in his life while failing to offer genuine support. Ultimately, she vows to protect her peace, her children, and Nick's true…
The author reflects on the complex nature of grieving and loving after loss. They emphasize that loving again does not erase previous love but coexists with it. Nicholas, the late husband, remains cherished, while Geoffrey offers stability in the present. Love can encompass multiple truths, evolving alongside grief and memories.
Prolonged or complicated grief isn’t just missing someone longer than expected.It’s what happens when loss doesn’t only break your heart. It overwhelms your body. When someone witnesses a suicide or a sudden, brutal death, grief doesn’t arrive gently. There is no preparation. No gradual goodbye. It enters as shock. As…
Setting boundaries can lead to resistance and blame rather than relief. Effective communication requires willingness, not just words. Deflection shifts focus away from your feelings, causing self-defense instead of resolution. Boundaries honor your experience, don't require permission, and shouldn't necessitate explanations. They support honesty, which is a form of love.
The past year has taught resilience and faith amidst grief. Acknowledging lost connections and internal struggles, the writer emphasizes the importance of self-worth and the need to let go of past pains. Embracing vulnerabilities, they find strength in God’s presence, reflecting on personal growth while navigating emotional complexities and transformation.
Some stories don’t come wrapped in pretty bows or clean explanations. Some stories are born from pain that didn’t start with you — but somehow landed at your feet anyway. And for a long time, I carried weight that was never mine to hold. My therapist knows their names. She…
Sometimes I wish I could fully express the courage and faith it has taken to get through this past year. There has been judgment, negativity, and darkness surrounding us, and yet somehow, by God’s grace, we’re still standing. My therapist often tells me I’m a thorough and thoughtful processor of…
Life can be unexpectedly heavy, leaving us shattered and lonely amidst profound grief. Yet, through such pain, gentle love can emerge, guiding us towards healing and hope. Meghan expresses gratitude for the man who supported her journey, proving that even after loss, love can bloom again, bringing joy and strength.
A year after losing her husband, the author reflects on the hardships of grief, parenting alone, and the emotional challenges faced by her children. Despite profound sadness and the complexities of healing, she acknowledges moments of beauty and growth in their lives. Faith plays a vital role in navigating this…